The Club In OKC (Oklahoma City) Sex & Swingers Club
Reviewed by: Sweet Couple
Address: Oklahoma City, OK, USA
Email: [email protected]
Website: http://theclubinokc.com/
The Club in OKC is the place to meet people for alternative lifestyle activities.
We are a private membership, swinger, lifestyle, dance, and Sex Club in Oklahoma City. We have a very friendly, pressure-free, safe, and secure atmosphere where it is an ideal place to meet and make new friends. We pride ourselves in offering an upscale dance social with complimentary hors d’oeuvres, great DJ and dance music, dance poles, a shadowbox, and the most incredible dance floor around!
We have a state of the art lighting and sound system, dance floor, and a professional DJ playing all kinds of music: hip hop, country, rock, and modern music. Our DJ plays mostly requests so the music reflects on the crowd.
We have biweekly parties on Saturday nights for couples, single females, and a few select single males. All OKC swingers are welcome!
If you have never attended an event at “The Club” you MUST complete our RSVP form and attend a quick “Welcome Warm-up meeting” before the party.
Table of Contents
Common Sense Rules
1. No means NO in any language.
2. Always ask before touching anybody. Always.
3. Be self-disciplined and respectful of others.
4. No one under the age of 21 allowed to attend club functions.
5. Do not discuss the club or members in public. Use discretion.
6. Do not give out the club location to non-members.
7. No use of illegal drugs on the premises.
8. No illegal activity of any kind allowed at club functions.
9. Membership cards must be presented for entrance to any club function.
10. Remember that the club is private, once you leave the club you are in a public atmosphere, act and dress accordingly.
11. No cell phones, cameras, or any other recording devices are allowed to be used inside “THE CLUB” at any time. NO EXCEPTIONS!!
12. Use the party time for a meeting, socializing, and getting to know other couples.
No Means No!
We do not assume responsibility for the actions or behavior of our attendees. We do expect acceptable manners of behavior, common courtesy to others, and discretion. All couples and singles shall exercise the same respect, dignity, and discretion they want others to show in return. Any problems that might arise concerning these issues will be handled by the club, ONLY IF:
(1) It is requested by a member, or
(2) Certain behaviors are causing a disturbance.
We believe you should be able to handle your relationships with other members. Be prepared and able to say “No” in a polite, yet firm manner. DO NOT expect us to do that for you! If a member will not take NO for an answer, then our staff will take care of the problem. NO means NO! Crude, lewd, and socially unacceptable behavior WILL NOT be tolerated!
If you are coming to the club with a partner, establish your boundaries beforehand.
Single women are always welcome at any party, “THE CLUB” is a safe and comfortable place to kick up your heels and meet some nice couples or singles.
Single men, remember there are couples and singles looking for you. The more you introduce yourself, the better are your opportunities. When meeting a couple, we suggest you talk to both of them to prevent misunderstandings.
Misunderstandings are less likely to occur when you are upfront with everyone.
Be polite and understanding with everyone.
And most of all, ENJOY YOURSELVES…..
Frequently Asked Questions
What kind of people attend the parties?
Our typical members are married couples. Most are in their 30’s and 40’s, but we have members from 21 to 60 plus. We have single females that attend on a regular basis. As our parties have grown, we have become more diverse. We discourage “cliques” and urge all our members to meet the new members that join each week. We think you will find the friendliest people in Oklahoma here at “THE CLUB”.
When are the parties?
You may click here to see our future parties. Parties start at 8 pm and last until 2 am. (The Halloween party starts at 7:30 pm.) If you are a new member, you ARE REQUIRED to attend the Welcome Warm upheld before the party. Once you have become a member you do not have to RSVP for future parties.
Will I be pressured to do anything?
No! The pressure is not tolerated.
Are single men allowed to attend?
Members may bring a single male with them. The safety and comfort of our couples is our PRIMARY concern and objective. Each of the single males invited to participate in our parties must be sponsored by a couple that already has a membership. All single males must RSVP and receive permission from us for each and every party they plan to attend in order to keep the ratio of single men to no more than 5% of couples.
I’m a single male. How do I attend a party?
The only way for you to attend is to get invited by a couple that already has a membership. You must complete the RSVP form and receive permission from us for each and every party you would like to attend. You must enter the party with your sponsoring couple. The sponsoring couple is responsible for your actions, just as you are. You do not have to sit with them, but if any problems occur, your membership will be revoked, and the sponsoring couple will no longer be allowed to invite single males.
Single males are asked to abide by the following: Etiquette Guide For Select Single Gentlemen In the Lifestyle!
Tell me about the cost.
The fees are as follows:
Membership Fee (This is a one time fee paid at your first party):
$20 per couple.
$5 per single female.
$20 per single male (Single men are only allowed entrance when brought by a sponsoring couple.)
Party admission is:
$50 per couple
$20 per single female
$60 per single male (Single men are only allowed entrance when brought by a sponsoring couple.)
What about the Amenities?
You are welcome to bring your own alcoholic drinks and mixers. Small ice chests are fine. However, you must furnish your own ice. All of the “THE CLUB” functions are BYOB. We provide set-ups for your drinks (i.e. sodas, tonic water, lemons, limes, ice, etc.). We also provide hors d’oeuvres and light snacks throughout the evening for your convenience. Please remember, Drink Responsibly! Since we are located in a hotel there is no reason to risk your life or the lives of others.
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Members may bring a single male with them. The safety and comfort of our couples is our PRIMARY concern and objective. Each of the single males invited to participate in our parties must be sponsored by a couple which already has a membership. All single males must RSVP and receive permission from us for each and every party they plan to attend in order to keep the ratio of single men to no more than 5% of couples.